As a new mom, I often find myself relating to other parents, whether they’re royalty (like when Princess Eugenie purchased a child-approved gift for herself) or fictional (like when I couldn’t stop binge-watching Netflix’s Adolescence). Most recently, I found myself identifying with Paris Hilton’s video, which featured a relatable parenting moment.

This week, the “Stars Are Blind” singer, 44, posted a video on her personal Instagram account, featuring a candid parenting moment with her two kids, Phoenix, 2, and London, 1. I immediately noticed a relatable detail in the background of the video: the room is a mess, just as it should be with two young kids.